1 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,160 You think you know your neighbors? 2 00:00:05,700 --> 00:00:06,700 Think again. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:12,140 All over the world, normal, everyday couples are taking a bold step in their 4 00:00:12,140 --> 00:00:13,140 relationships. 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:15,360 They're swingers. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:19,540 And there's no denying they're getting more than their share of incredible sex. 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:23,100 But is the lifestyle right for everyone? 8 00:00:23,820 --> 00:00:28,100 Host and sex counselor Jess O 'Reilly is waiting to welcome a brand new couple 9 00:00:28,100 --> 00:00:29,100 into the lifestyle. 10 00:00:30,300 --> 00:00:32,420 Hi, my name's Al. And I'm Sparkle. 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,720 We've known each other since we were 16. 12 00:00:35,180 --> 00:00:37,240 And we've been married for six. 13 00:00:37,580 --> 00:00:40,940 We want to take this opportunity to push our limits. 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:45,580 We know we have a solid relationship, so we're just looking for that next 15 00:00:45,580 --> 00:00:50,220 adventure. I'd like to test our boundaries a little bit, looking forward 16 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:52,720 and definitely more excited than nervous. 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,000 Very excited. 18 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:55,120 Yeah, ready to go. 19 00:00:55,460 --> 00:01:00,700 Will they be glad they took the plunge, or will they wish they never left home? 20 00:01:01,740 --> 00:01:02,740 Hang on. 21 00:01:02,980 --> 00:01:05,000 It's time to swing. 22 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:23,080 I'm nervous. 23 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:24,660 Really? Yeah. Why? 24 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,440 Because I'm going to be. 25 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,880 New place, new people, new things. I mean, I'm not used to that. 26 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:32,818 That's okay. 27 00:01:32,820 --> 00:01:34,060 At least we get to do it together. Yeah. 28 00:01:34,320 --> 00:01:39,080 Sparkle and I have a healthy sex drive into things outside the norm. She loves 29 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:43,220 other females, and I love her being with other females and starting to branch 30 00:01:43,220 --> 00:01:45,140 out to other areas of the lifestyle. 31 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,340 I think one of the things that's testing our boundaries the most about this is 32 00:01:49,340 --> 00:01:54,580 normally when we've played with women or, you know, it's been like... 33 00:01:54,970 --> 00:01:57,770 We've known them for a while. I know. I've got to know people. I have that 34 00:01:57,770 --> 00:02:00,230 comfort level. Yeah, so this is kind of jumping in. 35 00:02:00,490 --> 00:02:01,490 I'll be okay. 36 00:02:01,570 --> 00:02:02,570 Okay, cool. 37 00:02:03,070 --> 00:02:04,048 All right. 38 00:02:04,050 --> 00:02:06,930 Al and I are hoping to possibly do a full swap. 39 00:02:07,490 --> 00:02:13,990 If we can meet a good couple that we click with and we'll give up a little 40 00:02:13,990 --> 00:02:18,770 of control but are not afraid to take control when I'm ready to give it up. 41 00:02:32,170 --> 00:02:34,990 Hello guys, welcome to the swing house. How's it going? 42 00:02:35,250 --> 00:02:38,310 Great, thank you. I'm Jess Barkle. Al, nice to meet you. 43 00:02:38,530 --> 00:02:41,510 Lovely to meet you guys. Now I'm sure you're very excited to get this thing 44 00:02:41,510 --> 00:02:44,970 started, but before we do, we have one very important piece of business to take 45 00:02:44,970 --> 00:02:47,710 care of first, okay? Okay. So come with me. Let's do it. 46 00:02:54,450 --> 00:02:57,230 So now that you're in the house, what are you guys thinking? 47 00:02:57,630 --> 00:02:58,930 Meeting the new people. 48 00:03:00,190 --> 00:03:03,890 whether we're going to get along with them or feel warm and welcome. 49 00:03:04,470 --> 00:03:05,710 So it's always nervous. 50 00:03:06,130 --> 00:03:07,830 Yeah. What are you nervous about? 51 00:03:08,110 --> 00:03:09,670 I'm not really nervous. I'm more excited. 52 00:03:10,030 --> 00:03:13,890 You're just ready? I love getting out of my comfort zone whenever I can, so I'm 53 00:03:13,890 --> 00:03:15,070 ready. Does it always go well? 54 00:03:15,570 --> 00:03:19,070 Most of the time, yeah. So I think this one will be okay. 55 00:03:19,750 --> 00:03:23,110 I think it's good that you have a little bit of nerves because this is a big new 56 00:03:23,110 --> 00:03:24,790 experience. Yeah, yeah, definitely. 57 00:03:25,150 --> 00:03:28,010 Well, is this all new to you or do you have some experience? 58 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,259 in the lifestyle. 59 00:03:29,260 --> 00:03:31,000 We have some experience in the lifestyle. 60 00:03:31,300 --> 00:03:32,960 We're more girl on girl. 61 00:03:33,180 --> 00:03:39,260 So I think right now we are in the stage where I'm comfortable enough to move on 62 00:03:39,260 --> 00:03:42,720 to introducing guys into our relationship. 63 00:03:43,850 --> 00:03:45,590 So you say you think. 64 00:03:46,950 --> 00:03:49,930 So is there some hesitation there, apprehension? 65 00:03:50,410 --> 00:03:53,010 Guys are a little bit more nervous for me. 66 00:03:53,350 --> 00:03:57,710 Girls are more soft and sensual, and I'm more comfortable with them. I think I'm 67 00:03:57,710 --> 00:04:00,430 ready for us to do the full swap. 68 00:04:00,690 --> 00:04:03,990 So you're okay with Al also being with a woman? I'm okay with Al being with a 69 00:04:03,990 --> 00:04:05,950 woman. So that's kind of what we do now. 70 00:04:06,170 --> 00:04:11,050 Okay. And I love to watch him and share him and get that experience, and he's 71 00:04:11,050 --> 00:04:12,050 really excited. 72 00:04:12,190 --> 00:04:13,350 To see me with a guy. 73 00:04:14,330 --> 00:04:15,330 So. 74 00:04:15,550 --> 00:04:16,550 Try new things. 75 00:04:16,930 --> 00:04:21,209 Are you totally comfortable with Sparkle being with another man? I believe so. 76 00:04:21,290 --> 00:04:22,490 I've given it much thought. 77 00:04:22,730 --> 00:04:26,970 So I think I'm good. And sometimes there is a bit of a disconnect between what 78 00:04:26,970 --> 00:04:27,749 we think. 79 00:04:27,750 --> 00:04:30,330 Correct. And what actually translates into reality. 80 00:04:30,650 --> 00:04:34,670 Yeah. Right. So do you have some sort of a contingency plan or safety plan if 81 00:04:34,670 --> 00:04:35,670 you do feel uncomfortable? 82 00:04:35,830 --> 00:04:38,350 We have our signals and our safe word. 83 00:04:38,590 --> 00:04:39,950 And what's your safe word? 84 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:41,499 Money penny. 85 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:44,780 Money penny. Yeah. How did you pick that one? That's our dog's name. 86 00:04:46,220 --> 00:04:48,400 Your safe word is your dog. Yeah. Okay. 87 00:04:48,820 --> 00:04:50,160 Do you let your dog in your bedroom? 88 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:51,580 Not usually, no. 89 00:04:52,540 --> 00:04:53,740 Just making sure. 90 00:04:54,180 --> 00:04:57,700 You say that you're ready and that you're prepared to take this next step, 91 00:04:57,700 --> 00:04:59,280 is, as I understand it, the full swap. 92 00:04:59,500 --> 00:05:04,320 Yeah. But you sound, and you look, a little bit hesitant. And I think it's 93 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:08,980 really good that you're showing your honesty. So what makes you nervous about 94 00:05:08,980 --> 00:05:14,740 it? The situation, just how I'm going to feel with somebody else in front of my 95 00:05:14,740 --> 00:05:21,200 husband. You know, just if I'm going to be comfortable, if it's going to feel 96 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,840 right, if I'm not going to have any regrets afterwards. 97 00:05:24,860 --> 00:05:30,360 Then those all play a part in everything. So I want it to be 98 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,520 from the beginning. 99 00:05:32,740 --> 00:05:35,900 How do you think you will feel watching Sparkle with another man? 100 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,739 I don't know. 101 00:05:39,740 --> 00:05:45,040 I enjoy watching Sparkle dancing or performing in any kind of way or 102 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:49,820 I'm thinking that this will be kind of the same thing where I just love to 103 00:05:49,820 --> 00:05:50,940 her perform. 104 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,320 Do you think you'll experience any degree of jealousy? 105 00:05:54,940 --> 00:05:59,420 I don't think so. I'm not a jealous person at all. I think it would be 106 00:05:59,420 --> 00:06:02,820 difficult to make me jealous. I'm very confident in general, so jealousy is not 107 00:06:02,820 --> 00:06:03,820 something I'm into. 108 00:06:04,110 --> 00:06:07,870 Okay. Have you talked about anything that you're not willing to do during 109 00:06:07,870 --> 00:06:08,870 stay in the swing house? 110 00:06:09,710 --> 00:06:13,970 I think the only thing we talked about was trying to be in the same room to 111 00:06:13,970 --> 00:06:17,130 where, you know, at least we can wave at each other, check and see if we're 112 00:06:17,130 --> 00:06:21,410 okay. Right. The safe signal and the safe word don't work if we're not in the 113 00:06:21,410 --> 00:06:22,950 same room. If there's a wall between you, yeah. 114 00:06:23,390 --> 00:06:27,210 Okay. Fair enough. Well, we have here actually a contract to help set out the 115 00:06:27,210 --> 00:06:29,950 rules of the swing house. So I'm going to ask you to read through the contract. 116 00:06:30,290 --> 00:06:31,290 Okay. Thank you. 117 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:36,420 We have agreed to take part in a sexual adventure over the next two days during 118 00:06:36,420 --> 00:06:40,320 which all normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be temporarily set 119 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,840 aside. This contract is a free pass to do what we want over the next two days. 120 00:06:45,020 --> 00:06:49,000 We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the adventure 121 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,140 is over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house. 122 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:56,520 We give each other permission to explore and engage in sexual relationships with 123 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,180 other partners while we are here. 124 00:06:58,860 --> 00:07:02,400 Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the 125 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:03,259 space below. 126 00:07:03,260 --> 00:07:07,920 We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to offer, 127 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,460 that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling relationship. 128 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,940 Sounds good to me. How about you? Good. Yeah? 129 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:19,220 And you have some things you wanted to add, for instance, the same room rule. I 130 00:07:19,220 --> 00:07:20,220 think that's a great rule. 131 00:07:20,380 --> 00:07:21,380 Let's add that. 132 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,840 You're open to everything else? 133 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,700 Mm -hmm. And you're here for the full swap? 134 00:07:29,090 --> 00:07:31,710 Yes. You still sound nervous. I know, I know. 135 00:07:31,930 --> 00:07:36,450 I just got to, I guess, meet the people and see if I'm attracted to everybody. 136 00:07:37,610 --> 00:07:41,070 Well, if you don't have any other rules or questions, you can find below. Okay. 137 00:07:47,830 --> 00:07:51,550 All right. Well, I will hold on to this, and you guys can go check into your 138 00:07:51,550 --> 00:07:55,690 rooms and meet the other couples. All right. Thank you. You're most welcome. 139 00:07:55,690 --> 00:07:56,690 you shortly. 140 00:08:11,650 --> 00:08:17,350 We know that we're ready to do some crazy things while we're here. And I 141 00:08:17,350 --> 00:08:20,850 want to get ready and start to meet people and get going. 142 00:08:21,810 --> 00:08:23,890 I know. No, I'm getting better. 143 00:08:26,010 --> 00:08:27,550 Awesome. Everybody. 144 00:08:27,790 --> 00:08:29,550 I know. I like Jessica. 145 00:08:31,500 --> 00:08:37,260 He seems very excited. He's smiling, and he's happy to be here, and that makes 146 00:08:37,260 --> 00:08:38,260 me excited, too. 147 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:39,640 I hope they like it. 148 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:46,700 I think they're going to love you. I hope that there are some really 149 00:08:46,700 --> 00:08:49,600 hot girls there. That always makes me feel better. 150 00:08:50,300 --> 00:08:51,300 I'm sure. 151 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,980 There'll be many hot ladies like yourself in there. 152 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:55,279 We'll see. 153 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:56,280 Yeah. 154 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:58,680 Worried about what the guys look like? 155 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:04,080 A little bit, too. It's always girls are always so hot, and then the guys are 156 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,240 like, eh, how'd you end up with her? 157 00:09:06,660 --> 00:09:12,660 That happens. I can see that happening. But it's nice to get a good array of 158 00:09:12,660 --> 00:09:13,660 different people. 159 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:20,620 We haven't full swapped yet. It's difficult to find a couple that you have 160 00:09:20,620 --> 00:09:21,660 four -way connection with. 161 00:09:22,060 --> 00:09:26,480 Sometimes the girl is amazing and the guy is not. 162 00:09:26,990 --> 00:09:30,610 or there's just not chemistry between all four people. 163 00:09:30,850 --> 00:09:37,810 And so we're hoping to find that here. I am looking forward to seeing 164 00:09:37,810 --> 00:09:42,910 you enjoy yourself, being more comfortable, being less nervous. 165 00:09:43,970 --> 00:09:47,010 I think you're more comfortable once you know who you're dealing with. I think 166 00:09:47,010 --> 00:09:50,030 the whole thing that's making you nervous is you don't know who you're 167 00:09:50,030 --> 00:09:52,890 with. Yeah, I don't know what they look like, and I don't know if it's going to 168 00:09:52,890 --> 00:09:57,750 connect, because things always just go smoother when there's a good vibe and a 169 00:09:57,750 --> 00:09:59,310 good connection, good talking. 170 00:09:59,670 --> 00:10:03,230 You'll be able to spend enough time with everybody that you'll be able to see 171 00:10:03,230 --> 00:10:03,729 each other. 172 00:10:03,730 --> 00:10:06,610 I'm looking forward to seeing you come out of your comfort zone a little bit. I 173 00:10:06,610 --> 00:10:08,990 know. Test your boundaries a little bit. Yeah. 174 00:10:09,870 --> 00:10:11,270 I like to watch you perform. 175 00:10:11,890 --> 00:10:14,110 Thanks. What else are you looking for? 176 00:10:16,290 --> 00:10:17,770 Girl on Girl is always good. 177 00:10:18,010 --> 00:10:19,009 Yep, your favorite. 178 00:10:19,010 --> 00:10:20,010 They're my favorite. 179 00:10:20,290 --> 00:10:21,530 Here, tie me up. Yep. 180 00:10:21,950 --> 00:10:28,830 I have Al there, and I think if I can find someone that, you know, let me have 181 00:10:28,830 --> 00:10:31,130 a little control, I think it'll work. 182 00:10:32,390 --> 00:10:33,390 Cool. 183 00:10:34,030 --> 00:10:35,630 All right, you ready? I can. 184 00:10:36,270 --> 00:10:39,650 We're going to meet people, have fun. Mm -hmm. Yeah? All right, come on. 185 00:10:45,970 --> 00:10:47,290 I put toothpaste down there sometimes. 186 00:10:47,650 --> 00:10:50,310 Yeah, he puts toothpaste on his cup. I'll wash it off. 187 00:10:50,890 --> 00:10:54,170 I'll wash it off and everything. Yeah, because I'm like, you know, just what if 188 00:10:54,170 --> 00:10:55,129 I miss? I'm not kidding. 189 00:10:55,130 --> 00:10:58,790 Right on the tip. And he comes to the bathroom, I see a shiny tip, and I'm 190 00:10:58,790 --> 00:11:01,350 oh, someone wants them. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 191 00:11:02,199 --> 00:11:03,280 Restate that nonsense. 192 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:08,420 There will be time when I wash off, I clean it all off, and I want Holly to 193 00:11:08,420 --> 00:11:09,420 a good experience. 194 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:10,680 I want it to be memorable. 195 00:11:11,220 --> 00:11:13,220 So I'll put a little bit of toothpaste. 196 00:11:13,460 --> 00:11:14,460 Yeah. 197 00:11:14,560 --> 00:11:16,480 That means we don't get a look. 198 00:11:16,700 --> 00:11:18,840 No, it means I'm still getting blowjobs. 199 00:11:19,560 --> 00:11:24,920 So I will put a little, little bit of toothpaste right on the tip of my... 200 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,820 Weiner. Penis. So she can brush her teeth and give you a blowjob? I want her 201 00:11:28,820 --> 00:11:29,619 have a thing? 202 00:11:29,620 --> 00:11:30,640 No, it doesn't sting at all. 203 00:11:30,890 --> 00:11:34,370 And then sometimes, to let her know I want her to play with my balls, too, 204 00:11:34,370 --> 00:11:36,970 her mouth, I put a little bit on the bottom of my ball sack. What? 205 00:11:37,190 --> 00:11:40,190 Yep. Michael, I've heard of some shit. I've never heard of that. Yeah, I've 206 00:11:40,190 --> 00:11:41,190 never heard of that either. And it works. 207 00:11:41,290 --> 00:11:43,470 It tastes good, and it doesn't bother me. 208 00:11:44,390 --> 00:11:46,510 Yep. Hey, what's up? 209 00:11:46,930 --> 00:11:47,990 Hi. Hi. 210 00:12:01,439 --> 00:12:08,320 I'm looking around and it feels like I'm at a buffet and I can pick 211 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:09,660 and choose anyone I want. 212 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,160 Hopefully. 213 00:12:12,700 --> 00:12:14,380 So were you nervous coming up here? 214 00:12:14,680 --> 00:12:15,680 A little bit. 215 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,140 She was more nervous than I was. I was more excited. 216 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,180 You were excited, she was nervous? We've been talking about it for so long, the 217 00:12:21,180 --> 00:12:22,720 nervousness, I'm just ready to get here. 218 00:12:23,460 --> 00:12:24,800 And what were you nervous about? 219 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,280 You guys will like us. 220 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,160 Done. 221 00:12:28,860 --> 00:12:29,880 We like you. 222 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:31,940 What are you guys looking for? 223 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,700 What's the goal for you guys? 224 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,740 We do, well, we've been in the lifestyle a little bit, so we have some 225 00:12:38,740 --> 00:12:39,740 experience. 226 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,840 We do mostly girl. 227 00:12:42,580 --> 00:12:43,580 Girl, girl. 228 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:50,340 And so I think right now we're at the point where I'm okay introducing men 229 00:12:50,340 --> 00:12:55,340 now and doing maybe a full swap since we haven't done that before. 230 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:59,200 Now you said maybe. Is that something? I just want to make sure that I'm 231 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:03,280 comfortable with the person and that we connect. I don't want to force anything. 232 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,540 I want it to be a good situation overall. That's what's important is that 233 00:13:07,540 --> 00:13:09,420 maybe goes to yes, this is what we want. Right. 234 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,600 So whose idea is it to move this along? 235 00:13:13,940 --> 00:13:17,580 My idea. Everything goes to her face. I just kind of follow her lead with a grin 236 00:13:17,580 --> 00:13:18,580 on my face. 237 00:13:18,660 --> 00:13:21,740 It just works better that way. Why is that? 238 00:13:22,060 --> 00:13:26,000 Women tend to kind of dictate how things go. 239 00:13:26,460 --> 00:13:27,460 We're in charge. 240 00:13:27,540 --> 00:13:31,080 That's right. We have a good time. Everybody has a good time. 241 00:13:32,060 --> 00:13:32,739 That's true. 242 00:13:32,740 --> 00:13:36,360 Happy wife, happy life. Thank you. That's like rule number one. That is 243 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:37,360 number one. 244 00:13:37,790 --> 00:13:41,410 So you feel pretty comfortable where you are, and you feel maybe I can push it a 245 00:13:41,410 --> 00:13:44,230 little bit and see where we go? Because this is going to be new for you guys, 246 00:13:44,310 --> 00:13:47,810 introducing men, right? This hasn't happened before? Right. How do you feel 247 00:13:47,810 --> 00:13:48,810 about that? 248 00:13:49,050 --> 00:13:53,750 Great. Yeah, I'm confident enough. I'm not jealous or anything, and I'm not the 249 00:13:53,750 --> 00:13:58,430 perfect anything. So if I can learn anything, and I love watching her 250 00:13:58,430 --> 00:14:02,990 and being pleased at all. So I am completely okay with that. 251 00:14:03,310 --> 00:14:04,310 You are a lucky lady. 252 00:14:05,070 --> 00:14:07,250 I am very lucky. Not as lucky as I am. 253 00:14:08,090 --> 00:14:10,270 And today's our anniversary. 254 00:14:16,540 --> 00:14:19,320 What anniversary would that be? That's six years married. 255 00:14:20,060 --> 00:14:24,100 Wow. Would you have ever guessed in a million years this is where you would be 256 00:14:24,100 --> 00:14:27,020 on your six -year anniversary? No, but I couldn't imagine a better place. 257 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,160 You've got stuff all written down somewhere. 258 00:14:30,420 --> 00:14:32,980 The ladies like how these words are coming out of your mouth. All the ladies 259 00:14:32,980 --> 00:14:34,340 here are wondering if your mouth does good things. 260 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:38,960 Like I said, I'm not an expert at anything, but I try. 261 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:43,500 I will try as hard as I can. This is where I'm feeling my most comfortable 262 00:14:43,500 --> 00:14:48,120 because I'm actually getting to talk to people and it's just more natural for me 263 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,400 to be able to talk and get to know everybody all at once. 264 00:14:50,820 --> 00:14:54,820 Sparkles, how did it feel for you watching him with another female? I love 265 00:14:54,820 --> 00:14:59,140 watching him with another female because when he is playing with another girl, 266 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:00,440 I'm like, yep, that's my man. 267 00:15:01,060 --> 00:15:04,860 Yeah, you know, because this is what I get. You can have a little for a little 268 00:15:04,860 --> 00:15:06,020 while. I love that. 269 00:15:06,580 --> 00:15:10,520 You can have a little for a little while. What turns you on? 270 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,940 Me just getting to watch girls play with each other, whether I'm involved or 271 00:15:13,940 --> 00:15:15,940 not, there's still nothing better to me. 272 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,160 Yeah. But, yeah, that's still my number one thing. 273 00:15:19,980 --> 00:15:24,560 Sparkle, what do you think? What turns you on? I just, I like, I like the 274 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,660 before, like the caressing and. 275 00:15:29,390 --> 00:15:31,270 Petting and soft kisses. 276 00:15:31,910 --> 00:15:35,730 Sparkle is very much that way. Like, we can't go to the grocery store and then 277 00:15:35,730 --> 00:15:40,050 come home and fuck because she has to be, like, in the mood, in the mindset 278 00:15:40,110 --> 00:15:41,110 like, two hours beforehand. 279 00:15:41,830 --> 00:15:45,650 So interesting coming here because you're going to spend multiple hours in 280 00:15:45,650 --> 00:15:49,190 mindset. So I'm waiting to see the sparkle explosion that happens. 281 00:15:49,910 --> 00:15:52,710 All right, this has been fun. 282 00:15:53,050 --> 00:15:55,350 But let's hit the pool for some bikini basketball. 283 00:15:55,890 --> 00:15:57,450 We'll go over the rules real quick. 284 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:01,240 Guys are going to post up around the net. Guys can't move. Girls can. 285 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,640 First team to five. The other team loses some clothes. 286 00:16:05,140 --> 00:16:06,400 Let's do it. 287 00:16:08,060 --> 00:16:10,420 I am excited about playing in bikini baths. 288 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:14,960 It's a gorgeous pool. I'm ready to jump in, and I like a little competition. 289 00:16:15,660 --> 00:16:19,620 So we are divided into two teams, and Al and I are on the blue team. 290 00:16:19,900 --> 00:16:25,120 And I think this is going to be a great way to meet some people and start to 291 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,120 build a rapport. 292 00:16:26,670 --> 00:16:27,770 All right, girls, you ready to go? 293 00:16:48,430 --> 00:16:52,830 The game is fun because you're getting to rub up against each other and you're 294 00:16:52,830 --> 00:16:57,410 getting to see kitties bouncing around and girls fighting over the ball and 295 00:16:57,410 --> 00:16:59,270 everybody's just having fun together. 296 00:17:02,190 --> 00:17:04,530 All right, 297 00:17:05,690 --> 00:17:07,369 blue team, close off. 298 00:17:08,310 --> 00:17:11,910 Playing the basketball game, I think it's kind of bringing my nerves down. 299 00:17:12,150 --> 00:17:14,710 Everybody's laughing and giggling and getting topless. 300 00:17:16,220 --> 00:17:17,760 making me feel a little bit more calm. 301 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:28,680 It's good to see Sparkle getting more comfortable with herself and everybody 302 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:33,540 else during the game. It was awesome to see her show off her body and get to see 303 00:17:33,540 --> 00:17:36,860 the other girls' beautiful titties shining in the sunlight. 304 00:18:06,300 --> 00:18:10,560 I don't even know who scored more points, but everybody seemed to win to 305 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,560 because everybody was naked at the end. 306 00:18:19,150 --> 00:18:20,610 I think the ice is broken. 307 00:18:21,070 --> 00:18:27,510 The game is over. It definitely increases the little horniness amongst 308 00:18:27,510 --> 00:18:28,510 group. 309 00:18:28,590 --> 00:18:32,650 We say goodbye to everybody and we head up to the room to get ready for the 310 00:18:32,650 --> 00:18:33,650 night. 311 00:18:36,330 --> 00:18:37,330 Who are you liking? 312 00:18:39,070 --> 00:18:40,070 Everybody's super cool. 313 00:18:40,330 --> 00:18:45,170 Anybody sticking out more than someone else? You're talking about playing? 314 00:18:45,890 --> 00:18:46,890 Watching. 315 00:18:48,070 --> 00:18:50,370 Nikki's hot. Yeah, I like Nikki. Emily's hot. 316 00:18:50,770 --> 00:18:51,770 Ladies are hot. 317 00:18:52,150 --> 00:18:57,550 I know I want to see Sparkle play with some girls like possibly Emily and 318 00:18:57,710 --> 00:19:01,250 I think that would be really hot. But I'm just kind of hoping that Sparkle's 319 00:19:01,250 --> 00:19:06,230 comfortable enough to try something different. Because this is new territory 320 00:19:06,230 --> 00:19:07,790 Sparkle as far as... 321 00:19:08,270 --> 00:19:09,270 Going after a guy. 322 00:19:09,470 --> 00:19:12,110 So I just wanted to help her, support her any way I could. 323 00:19:12,330 --> 00:19:14,090 Think you're ready to try some new things? 324 00:19:14,350 --> 00:19:16,050 Yeah. With some new people? 325 00:19:16,450 --> 00:19:18,690 Yeah. I just can't decide now. 326 00:19:19,370 --> 00:19:21,310 You don't have to decide anything now. 327 00:19:21,830 --> 00:19:22,830 You got a while. 328 00:19:22,990 --> 00:19:24,350 So I'm comfortable with everybody. 329 00:19:24,690 --> 00:19:28,210 Yeah. I'm just following your lead. Whenever you think it's cool, I'm with 330 00:19:28,350 --> 00:19:30,650 I am feeling good at this point. 331 00:19:30,930 --> 00:19:32,290 I'm a little nervous. 332 00:19:32,860 --> 00:19:37,380 To know if there is a full connection there, because we really haven't had a 333 00:19:37,380 --> 00:19:42,500 chance to talk to the couples to see if they liked us. 334 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,980 I think the setting is great, and everybody just seems so welcoming. 335 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,920 It's a good no -pressure environment. I think everybody who's into you is just 336 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,080 going to follow your lead anyway. Right. Well, I don't want to pressure anybody. 337 00:19:54,460 --> 00:19:56,160 I don't think you have to worry about that. 338 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:00,780 I think they're all pretty open to telling you how they feel. Yeah. You 339 00:20:00,780 --> 00:20:02,240 have to worry about that. Yeah. No doubt. 340 00:20:02,810 --> 00:20:07,410 I love that Al constantly checks in with me. I think that's what helps make us 341 00:20:07,410 --> 00:20:12,550 strong because we know where each other is at at all times. 342 00:20:18,850 --> 00:20:20,010 So what do you think about Al? 343 00:20:21,710 --> 00:20:22,710 He's pretty cute. 344 00:20:23,030 --> 00:20:26,190 You know what I thought was funny was when he ripped his shorts off. 345 00:20:26,490 --> 00:20:27,490 Regular shorts? That was funny. 346 00:20:27,750 --> 00:20:28,810 That was awesome. 347 00:20:29,210 --> 00:20:29,889 That was awesome. 348 00:20:29,890 --> 00:20:31,650 What do you think? Do you want to play with him tonight? 349 00:20:32,060 --> 00:20:33,060 See how things go? 350 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:37,060 I don't know. It's a possibility. We'll have to get to know him better over 351 00:20:37,060 --> 00:20:38,680 drinks and see how it goes. 352 00:20:39,360 --> 00:20:40,359 Sounds good. 353 00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:41,660 They seem pretty cool for newbies. 354 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,500 Yeah. Obviously not super shy. 355 00:20:44,940 --> 00:20:47,460 It'll be interesting to see what they get themselves into. 356 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:49,520 How do you feel about Al? 357 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:55,020 I like Al. I think Al has a really fun personality. He's very smooth. 358 00:20:55,710 --> 00:20:56,970 He's got, like, a shaft essence. 359 00:20:58,130 --> 00:21:01,570 He's just cool, and he's not even trying. He is just cool, and I think 360 00:21:01,570 --> 00:21:02,509 super sexy. 361 00:21:02,510 --> 00:21:06,110 Yeah, I'm excited about Sparkle, too. She's, like, right up my alley. Yeah. 362 00:21:06,250 --> 00:21:10,690 Super smiley, super happy. Big doe eyes, got, like, amazing eyelashes, and she 363 00:21:10,690 --> 00:21:11,690 knows it. 364 00:21:11,770 --> 00:21:13,450 Like, she's hot. 365 00:21:13,790 --> 00:21:15,650 She floats with them eyes, like, crazy. 366 00:21:16,070 --> 00:21:16,889 Yeah, yeah. 367 00:21:16,890 --> 00:21:17,890 Hot. 368 00:21:18,150 --> 00:21:19,470 What do you think about playing with them? 369 00:21:19,930 --> 00:21:20,809 I will see. 370 00:21:20,810 --> 00:21:22,970 I'll get a better idea as the night progresses. 371 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,340 I don't really know where she's at. 372 00:21:25,620 --> 00:21:30,380 I don't know if she's 100 % there yet. I mean, he's all on board. We so decided 373 00:21:30,380 --> 00:21:34,860 to go there. But I think she's a little hesitant. I'm going to fill her. 374 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:36,620 You're going to fill her up? 375 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,900 You mean you're going to feel her out? 376 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:44,260 I'm going to feel her out a little bit more through the evening, see how she's 377 00:21:44,260 --> 00:21:49,140 at. I love it. She's so smooth. And you know what? You have competition because 378 00:21:49,140 --> 00:21:50,380 he's really smooth. 379 00:21:51,340 --> 00:21:54,800 You're the Rico Suave guy, but you've got competition in the house tonight. 380 00:22:02,860 --> 00:22:03,759 Feeling good? 381 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:04,940 Yep. Feeling really good. 382 00:22:05,460 --> 00:22:06,460 Excited. Very. 383 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,600 Then we should be good. Yeah. Because that's half the battle. 384 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,560 Good evening. 385 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,660 Hey. Hi. How's it going, guys? 386 00:22:17,900 --> 00:22:19,620 Great. Good. How was your afternoon? 387 00:22:19,980 --> 00:22:21,160 Great. Yeah. 388 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,340 Did you have some first experiences? 389 00:22:25,140 --> 00:22:28,540 Yeah, I've never been in a pool with as many naked people. That's true. 390 00:22:28,820 --> 00:22:32,700 So you got to meet the other couples. Was there chemistry with any of them? 391 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:37,300 Yeah. Nikki and Daniel were really cool. We hung out with them a little bit. So 392 00:22:37,300 --> 00:22:38,300 you're attracted to Nikki and Daniel? 393 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:39,560 Yeah. We think they're really cool. 394 00:22:40,220 --> 00:22:41,240 Kind of a good speed. 395 00:22:42,300 --> 00:22:43,820 You like Emily? 396 00:22:44,060 --> 00:22:45,100 Oh, I like Emily. 397 00:22:45,460 --> 00:22:46,480 She's gorgeous. 398 00:22:46,860 --> 00:22:50,460 Okay. Now, it's going to be your first time with a man. 399 00:22:50,700 --> 00:22:53,180 Right. So which man are you most attracted to? 400 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,460 Or is there a list? Great question. 401 00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:57,120 A better question. 402 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,160 There's a couple. There's probably about three that are kind of piquing my 403 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:07,280 interest and I probably want to talk to a little bit more. I worry a little bit 404 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,280 about them. 405 00:23:08,650 --> 00:23:14,530 Not trying to be too forceful. Okay. So I guess I have to go after. 406 00:23:15,270 --> 00:23:18,450 When you say forceful, do you mean you don't want them to be aggressive in the 407 00:23:18,450 --> 00:23:20,150 way they initiate or physically aggressive? 408 00:23:20,510 --> 00:23:26,050 Well, I think in the lifestyle, when women don't really mix with men, the 409 00:23:26,050 --> 00:23:27,830 usually respect that and they kind of stay away. 410 00:23:28,110 --> 00:23:32,190 Okay. But with me trying to take that next step. 411 00:23:32,939 --> 00:23:35,900 You don't want them to stay away. I don't want them to stay away. But you 412 00:23:35,900 --> 00:23:38,940 help with that as well, can't you? That's true. Yeah, I will be your 413 00:23:39,900 --> 00:23:41,780 Aw, you're so sweet. 414 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:43,120 I do my best. 415 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,360 So are you feeling ready for that full swap? 416 00:23:46,260 --> 00:23:47,260 Yeah, I think so. 417 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:51,980 I just want to go with the flow and not try to force anything. 418 00:23:52,420 --> 00:23:54,840 Okay. But is it still what you have in mind? Yes. 419 00:23:55,300 --> 00:23:59,140 I don't want to force anything, but I want the full swap. Right. Well, it's 420 00:23:59,140 --> 00:24:00,720 experience. We want the experience. 421 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,780 Okay, good. Well, I'm going to go downstairs and let you finish getting 422 00:24:03,860 --> 00:24:06,960 and you can come meet me down there when you're ready. Thank you. Thanks, guys. 423 00:24:07,060 --> 00:24:08,060 See you shortly. 424 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,640 Ready to go? I think I'm ready. 425 00:24:10,860 --> 00:24:11,860 Okay. Yep. 426 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:14,779 Come on. 427 00:24:14,780 --> 00:24:21,160 When we went home last year from the swing house and we started trying to 428 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:25,830 out, how to be swingers, I think that we were putting a lot of pressure on 429 00:24:25,830 --> 00:24:30,270 ourselves. It took us a few times to realize that that's not fair to us any 430 00:24:30,270 --> 00:24:33,410 than it's fair to the other couple. It's important to not put pressure on 431 00:24:33,410 --> 00:24:37,850 yourself when you're meeting someone and, you know, just give yourself the 432 00:24:37,850 --> 00:24:41,570 to get to know them and figure out who has chemistry and who doesn't. 433 00:24:41,790 --> 00:24:44,810 Oftentimes it's a great patient -building game. 434 00:24:45,050 --> 00:24:48,610 We have to make sure everybody's okay with the situation before it becomes a 435 00:24:48,610 --> 00:24:49,930 much more involved situation. 436 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,000 You are far better looking than I am. 437 00:24:59,980 --> 00:25:00,980 Hey! 438 00:25:02,980 --> 00:25:05,760 What's you guys doing? Come on in, join the party. 439 00:25:06,140 --> 00:25:07,860 Everybody looks good, Gerard. 440 00:25:08,780 --> 00:25:10,320 Some of us look even better wet. 441 00:25:11,860 --> 00:25:17,060 Everybody is dressed sexy and looking good. Everybody cleaned up good from the 442 00:25:17,060 --> 00:25:18,080 pool, got drink. 443 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,260 Very excited for how it's going to continue tonight. 444 00:25:21,550 --> 00:25:22,529 How are y 'all doing? 445 00:25:22,530 --> 00:25:23,570 How are y 'all feeling? 446 00:25:23,970 --> 00:25:26,950 I'm feeling great. How are you feeling? We're doing great. I missed this grin 447 00:25:26,950 --> 00:25:27,950 over there. I saw that. 448 00:25:28,730 --> 00:25:32,110 It's getting bigger the longer we're here. I know. That's not all that tends 449 00:25:32,110 --> 00:25:33,110 happen. 450 00:25:35,190 --> 00:25:36,530 Everybody is so great. 451 00:25:36,910 --> 00:25:41,390 Everybody's houses are gorgeous and friendly, and there's really no one that 452 00:25:41,390 --> 00:25:42,630 we're like, no. 453 00:25:43,030 --> 00:25:46,590 We were thinking that we were going to beat people here, and then we were like, 454 00:25:46,630 --> 00:25:47,630 no. 455 00:25:53,149 --> 00:25:54,149 Everybody's awesome. 456 00:25:55,050 --> 00:25:57,030 It'd be easier if they weren't as awesome. 457 00:25:58,690 --> 00:26:00,970 You feel like you have to fit it all in in one night. 458 00:26:01,370 --> 00:26:03,010 Too many flavors to choose from. 459 00:26:03,850 --> 00:26:10,370 That's a good problem to have. We got to talk to Nikki and Daniel, and 460 00:26:10,370 --> 00:26:16,190 they're a great, well -rounded couple. She's gorgeous, long legs, so I think 461 00:26:16,190 --> 00:26:17,710 they fit within our parameters. 462 00:26:18,230 --> 00:26:19,350 Good evening, guys. 463 00:26:19,730 --> 00:26:24,510 I want to wish Alan Sparkle a fabulous night. I hope you get everything you 464 00:26:24,510 --> 00:26:27,920 for. I hope these guys really look out for you and take care of you. 465 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:33,240 So before I leave, let's raise a glass to you two and to Swing. To Swing! 466 00:26:33,540 --> 00:26:34,419 Cheers, guys. 467 00:26:34,420 --> 00:26:35,420 Cheers. 468 00:26:35,500 --> 00:26:36,500 Okay, 469 00:26:38,220 --> 00:26:39,220 guys, everybody. 470 00:26:39,460 --> 00:26:42,340 Had a great time getting to know each other. Why don't we go in the other 471 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,060 We've got a great game set up. We'll get to know each other even better. 472 00:26:47,500 --> 00:26:50,380 Doug says there's a game we're going to play in the other room. 473 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,680 I don't know what it is, but I know it's going to be something sick. 474 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:56,480 Okay, 475 00:26:57,340 --> 00:26:58,340 everybody. 476 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,740 We're going to play a game of sexy charades. 477 00:27:02,100 --> 00:27:05,860 And the way this is going to work, we've got guys against girls. Somebody's 478 00:27:05,860 --> 00:27:08,020 going to come up and pick a card. You've got to act out that. 479 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,140 As soon as that group guesses it, then the other side goes, and they've got to 480 00:27:12,140 --> 00:27:15,620 beat their time. If you lose, you take off a piece of clothing. 481 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:20,180 I haven't played charades in forever, but I think the girls can win this one. 482 00:27:20,660 --> 00:27:21,660 Here we go. 483 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:22,920 One word. 484 00:27:43,510 --> 00:27:50,150 The person who does it in the lesser amount of time wins. So we all 485 00:27:50,150 --> 00:27:52,990 decide that we need to distract them. 486 00:28:12,990 --> 00:28:17,450 gentlemen got that in 33 seconds which beats their one minute 19 seconds 487 00:28:17,450 --> 00:28:19,450 the ladies and article of clothing please 488 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,280 Banking assets didn't work. 489 00:28:24,500 --> 00:28:28,840 So we start making out with each other to see if that would distract them. 490 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,000 Barbara starts making out with Nikki during the game, and I'm completely 491 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:38,620 distracted. But at the same time, I'm loving it because I know that increases 492 00:28:38,620 --> 00:28:42,820 our chances for possibly a full swap with Nikki and Dan. 493 00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:44,640 Go. Do it. 494 00:28:45,780 --> 00:28:46,780 Put it. 495 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,060 Pull. Pull. 496 00:28:50,350 --> 00:28:52,130 Full fucking, full swap, full crowd. 497 00:28:55,970 --> 00:29:02,670 Two words. 498 00:29:03,190 --> 00:29:04,250 First word. 499 00:29:05,110 --> 00:29:06,530 Six. Second word. 500 00:29:08,370 --> 00:29:09,370 69. 501 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,440 dominating the ladies. 502 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:39,960 Everything is just starting to come off. Dresses, panties, bras. 503 00:29:40,780 --> 00:29:45,000 And the ladies are hating it, but the guys continue to be smiling any day. 504 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,560 We're not doing very good at this game. I don't know why. Girls are supposed to 505 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,460 be better communicators. All right, I'm ready. 506 00:29:54,140 --> 00:29:55,900 Three, two, one, go. 507 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,800 One more. 508 00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,120 Two syllables. 509 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:33,760 I think sexy charades was a great game. We lost, but I think it made the night a 510 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:34,820 bit more sexier. 511 00:30:35,100 --> 00:30:36,360 Okay, everybody. 512 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,340 It's a great game, obviously, since most of the women are naked. We all won. 513 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:48,140 Why don't we all get a drink, a little refresher, and we'll go from there. 514 00:30:49,780 --> 00:30:55,600 Doug says the game's over and we're going to go just relax. 515 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,680 That's a time when I want to connect with Sparkle because we were separate 516 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,780 whole game, so I want to make sure she's still okay. 517 00:31:02,460 --> 00:31:06,980 After I talked and checked in with her, we continued to be on the same page, 518 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,260 both comfortable, happy. 519 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,880 And so Daniel and Nikki take us up to the red room. 520 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:27,800 We get in there, and we immediately see just this very large space with lots of 521 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,640 beds, pillows. 522 00:31:30,700 --> 00:31:34,520 We're going to have a great time. Even if we don't do anything in this room, 523 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,800 just whatever happens in here, we get to watch. We know it's going to be 524 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,080 amazing. I think I'm wearing too much clothes. I think so, too. 525 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:49,500 I think Alan and I are going to sleep. 526 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:50,960 Oh, really? 527 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:52,400 A little bit. 528 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,420 I love watching Sparkle being with other females. 529 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,940 Two hot bodies and both very sensual and soft. 530 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,280 That is definitely something that never gets old. 531 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:21,420 Sparkle starts going down on me, and she's great at blowjobs. 532 00:33:31,020 --> 00:33:36,280 Then Nikki comes in and helps sparkle with the blowjob, and it's a super 533 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,480 -on environment right now. 534 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:06,180 While we're going down on Al, Daniel's kind of in the corner and watching. 535 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:12,400 Daniel's playing his cards right. I think he knows my levels, and he's being 536 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,400 good boy. 537 00:34:44,489 --> 00:34:50,989 It made me feel really good that Daniel was excited to have me play with him. 538 00:34:51,150 --> 00:34:56,370 His eyes get really big and his smile's ear to ear, and he's like, yes, please. 539 00:35:23,500 --> 00:35:28,060 After playing in the red room for a while, Sparkle and I decided we'd like a 540 00:35:28,060 --> 00:35:33,920 little bit more private setting, so we decided to invite Daniel and Nikki back 541 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:34,920 to the bedroom. 542 00:35:50,860 --> 00:35:51,880 This is it now. 543 00:35:52,100 --> 00:35:53,580 We're going to do a full swap. 544 00:35:53,780 --> 00:35:58,460 And I just take a deep breath, look at Al, and we go. 545 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:18,200 Full swap is happening, and I'm... 546 00:36:18,700 --> 00:36:22,240 Loving it. Feeling great. I'm looking at Sparkle. There's pleasure on her face, 547 00:36:22,300 --> 00:36:26,220 so I know she's doing good. And Nikki's looking good. She looks like she's 548 00:36:26,220 --> 00:36:27,220 feeling good. 549 00:37:12,380 --> 00:37:13,580 I did. 550 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,380 I had a great time. Everything is safe. 551 00:37:18,180 --> 00:37:20,120 Yeah. I had to. 552 00:37:20,780 --> 00:37:23,920 Like seeing Daniel in the back. That's awesome. 553 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,280 Yeah. 554 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,720 I like that he was my pace. 555 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,360 Yeah, a little more comfortable when we got back to the bedroom. 556 00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:35,380 Yeah, the red room was fun. 557 00:37:36,060 --> 00:37:40,640 Yeah, there was a lot to take in. Yeah, there was a lot to take in. The bedroom 558 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,700 was more comfortable. 559 00:37:43,060 --> 00:37:43,678 Mm -hmm. 560 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:44,680 Do you regret? 561 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,300 What? Yeah. 562 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,400 Maybe it's for the last hunger. 563 00:38:13,540 --> 00:38:14,960 Good morning, guys. 564 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:16,279 How's it going? 565 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,240 Great. How was your night last night? 566 00:38:18,650 --> 00:38:19,650 Fun. Great. 567 00:38:19,870 --> 00:38:22,930 Good. Well, I want to hear all about it. So, Sparkle, why don't we go chat, you 568 00:38:22,930 --> 00:38:23,930 and me? Okay. 569 00:38:30,670 --> 00:38:33,750 So, Sparkle, you're all smiles this morning. I am. 570 00:38:34,150 --> 00:38:35,410 Tell me all about last night. 571 00:38:35,990 --> 00:38:38,250 We had a great time. 572 00:38:38,790 --> 00:38:40,050 We played a game. 573 00:38:40,330 --> 00:38:41,370 Okay. What was the game? 574 00:38:42,130 --> 00:38:44,930 Charades. Oh, it was guys against girls, and we lost. 575 00:38:45,690 --> 00:38:48,730 So, we were... Pretty much naked within the first couple of rounds. 576 00:38:48,950 --> 00:38:52,250 So naked charades. Naked charades, pretty much. How was that? It was fun. 577 00:38:52,510 --> 00:38:54,390 Got to see a little bit of everybody's personality. 578 00:38:55,410 --> 00:38:58,330 Did that help to put your fears to rest? 579 00:38:58,610 --> 00:38:59,810 It helped break the ice. 580 00:39:00,410 --> 00:39:06,050 Because then I wasn't so focused on me because it wasn't all about me. And that 581 00:39:06,050 --> 00:39:07,790 was making me more comfortable. 582 00:39:08,170 --> 00:39:09,950 Good. And after the game? 583 00:39:10,770 --> 00:39:14,930 Then we got invited to the Red Room, which was... 584 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:22,540 really more out of my comfort zone than I was used to. There was a 585 00:39:22,540 --> 00:39:29,400 lot going on in the room. I mean, they set up perfect environment for, you 586 00:39:29,420 --> 00:39:30,420 whatever you needed. 587 00:39:31,620 --> 00:39:33,020 Tons of things to play with. 588 00:39:33,380 --> 00:39:34,580 And what did you play with? 589 00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:36,720 Nikki. 590 00:39:38,380 --> 00:39:40,560 Okay. That helped me. 591 00:39:41,509 --> 00:39:45,570 ease a little bit more into it. And I could see, you know, she was bullying me 592 00:39:45,570 --> 00:39:47,150 and vice versa. 593 00:39:47,470 --> 00:39:49,150 And that made me more comfortable. 594 00:39:49,770 --> 00:39:51,770 So did you end up playing with Daniel? 595 00:39:52,010 --> 00:39:56,830 We did. We ended up inviting them back to our room. And it was great because he 596 00:39:56,830 --> 00:40:03,710 let me control things, which is, you know, one of my, when I first got here, 597 00:40:03,710 --> 00:40:04,710 of my fears. 598 00:40:05,010 --> 00:40:08,790 And so the communication with him was really great. 599 00:40:09,010 --> 00:40:11,130 Okay. And so what happened in the bedroom? 600 00:40:11,610 --> 00:40:18,510 Well, I got to swap with Daniel, and Al got to swap with Nikki, and we did 601 00:40:18,510 --> 00:40:23,430 it together with an arm's reach, which was really great. Now we're officially 602 00:40:23,430 --> 00:40:24,430 full swappers. 603 00:40:25,350 --> 00:40:27,690 What was it like to be with another man? 604 00:40:28,470 --> 00:40:34,790 It was great being with another man. It was even better that my man was there 605 00:40:34,790 --> 00:40:37,950 because it was sex. 606 00:40:39,240 --> 00:40:45,740 But it's something that we experience together, so I think it will make us 607 00:40:45,740 --> 00:40:47,540 together. Good. 608 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,720 And while you were having sex with Daniel, were you at all concerned about 609 00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:52,940 was going through Al's mind? 610 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:58,560 A little bit. I look over and check on him, and I looked at him, and he had 611 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:03,160 Nikki one way, and then I went back to focusing on Daniel. Then I looked over 612 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:07,480 again, he had Nikki another way, so he was in a good mood. 613 00:41:08,839 --> 00:41:11,420 Okay. So when you woke up this morning, how were you feeling? 614 00:41:11,660 --> 00:41:13,840 Good. I couldn't believe it's over. 615 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,440 It went so fast. 616 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,180 So if you're feeling all right, I'm going to have Al come in here, and I'll 617 00:41:20,180 --> 00:41:22,700 down with him one -on -one, okay? Okay. Thanks. You're welcome. 618 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:30,640 Hey, Al. 619 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:31,760 How are you today? 620 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,180 Great. I'm ready to hear all about your night last night. 621 00:41:35,420 --> 00:41:39,880 So you had your first full swap. We did. I had a great time, and Sparkle said 622 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:40,698 she did too. 623 00:41:40,700 --> 00:41:44,640 She was comfortable and happy, and that's all that matters. So it was 624 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,500 it distracting to have sex with Nikki while she was having sex with Daniel? 625 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,360 I wouldn't say distracting. 626 00:41:50,460 --> 00:41:56,120 It added to the excitement of everything because, I mean, Nikki is so hot, and 627 00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,980 then watching Sparkle perform with Daniel at the same time, it was as hot 628 00:41:59,980 --> 00:42:01,460 could be. Good. Beautiful. 629 00:42:01,870 --> 00:42:05,750 Were you worried at all about Sparkle and how she was feeling in her first 630 00:42:05,750 --> 00:42:06,770 experience with another man? 631 00:42:06,990 --> 00:42:10,110 I was, but every time, you know, I looked at her and checked on her, she 632 00:42:10,110 --> 00:42:15,930 give me a thumbs up and had a smile on her face or just pleasure on her face. 633 00:42:15,930 --> 00:42:17,170 I knew she was good to go. 634 00:42:17,750 --> 00:42:21,190 So overall, it was a good night. It was great. Good. And how are you feeling 635 00:42:21,190 --> 00:42:22,009 this morning? 636 00:42:22,010 --> 00:42:25,030 Great. Refreshed, happy, glad we came. 637 00:42:25,410 --> 00:42:29,130 Good. Good trip. Did you talk about how this experience might shape or influence 638 00:42:29,130 --> 00:42:30,130 your relationship? 639 00:42:31,299 --> 00:42:35,440 We just talked about if this was a good experience and if it was something that 640 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:39,360 we would do again. And I think we both agreed that it was great for both of us. 641 00:42:39,380 --> 00:42:42,840 And I knew when Sparkle told me she would do it again that we were good to 642 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:46,560 So it's only going to make us stronger and better. So you're feeling all right 643 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,660 now? Feeling great. Well, if you are, we'll have Sparkle come back in and I'll 644 00:42:49,660 --> 00:42:50,760 sit down with the both of you. Okay. 645 00:42:54,060 --> 00:42:55,060 Hi. Hi. 646 00:42:55,140 --> 00:42:57,460 You two look very much in love this morning. 647 00:42:59,130 --> 00:43:02,470 I know you said you had a really positive experience last night. I'm so 648 00:43:02,470 --> 00:43:06,190 hear that. But it's always good to kind of work stuff out, talk as much as you 649 00:43:06,190 --> 00:43:09,950 can, because sometimes when you process things, other things will come up, other 650 00:43:09,950 --> 00:43:10,950 feelings will come up. 651 00:43:11,250 --> 00:43:15,590 So I thought we could start by, Sparkle, you can tell Al how you're feeling 652 00:43:15,590 --> 00:43:16,590 about him this morning. 653 00:43:17,210 --> 00:43:18,210 You're so sexy. 654 00:43:20,270 --> 00:43:22,030 I guess that's a good feeling. 655 00:43:22,510 --> 00:43:23,510 Why did he laugh? 656 00:43:25,750 --> 00:43:26,649 That was cool. 657 00:43:26,650 --> 00:43:28,590 Unexpected. Yeah, you're sexy too. Thank you. Okay. 658 00:43:29,529 --> 00:43:32,850 When you were playing in the Red Room, did you play with other partners and 659 00:43:32,850 --> 00:43:33,850 switch back to one another? 660 00:43:34,510 --> 00:43:37,090 Yeah. On and off. Yeah. Did that help you to reconnect? 661 00:43:37,730 --> 00:43:38,850 It does. Yeah. 662 00:43:39,050 --> 00:43:41,690 We never felt like we were on an island by ourselves. 663 00:43:42,250 --> 00:43:43,249 It's indignant. 664 00:43:43,250 --> 00:43:44,189 Mm -hmm. 665 00:43:44,190 --> 00:43:45,570 Good. For our contract. 666 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:48,760 Within arm's reach. 667 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,880 And the night lasted well into the wee hours, I heard. 668 00:43:54,100 --> 00:43:55,720 Yeah. Very, very fun. 669 00:43:56,020 --> 00:43:57,240 Everybody is so great. 670 00:43:59,060 --> 00:44:00,680 What do you think the next step will be? 671 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:05,820 If we were to do it again with another couple, we would probably take more time 672 00:44:05,820 --> 00:44:09,920 to get to know them because we have more time to get to know them. Right. I 673 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,920 think that would help. 674 00:44:11,729 --> 00:44:16,810 the overall experience, you know, preferences, positions, stuff like that. 675 00:44:16,810 --> 00:44:18,090 out the questionnaire. Right. 676 00:44:18,310 --> 00:44:19,310 Exactly. 677 00:44:19,570 --> 00:44:24,290 Yeah, we didn't have a lot of time to talk about likes and dislikes, but it 678 00:44:24,290 --> 00:44:25,290 worked out good. 679 00:44:25,890 --> 00:44:28,930 I'm so glad that you guys had a good night. Now you have a little bit more 680 00:44:28,930 --> 00:44:32,330 to go hang out with the other couples if you'd like, and I will come get you 681 00:44:32,330 --> 00:44:33,330 when it's time to go. 682 00:44:33,370 --> 00:44:34,370 Thank you. 683 00:44:34,490 --> 00:44:35,490 You're welcome. 684 00:44:41,900 --> 00:44:45,240 Thank you guys for off the line. I really appreciate it. You guys made 685 00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:46,240 everything great. 686 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:47,520 Very welcoming. 687 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,840 I think we did all that we wanted to. 688 00:44:50,300 --> 00:44:53,360 Wish we could do more. What are you guys looking forward to when you go back to 689 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,060 Dallas with the lifestyle? 690 00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:02,780 Doing the full swap again at a different level, you know, because it's nice to 691 00:45:02,780 --> 00:45:06,380 get to know each other and it's very new, but there's... 692 00:45:06,850 --> 00:45:10,850 Not a lot of time to communicate what you like and what you don't like. If you 693 00:45:10,850 --> 00:45:13,350 have more time to talk about it ahead of time, I would think it would be easier. 694 00:45:13,590 --> 00:45:16,530 I joke all the time we need a laminated flashcard that you can just, like, give 695 00:45:16,530 --> 00:45:20,670 people when you meet them on a date. I like this. Don't do this. Touch me here, 696 00:45:20,670 --> 00:45:21,670 but not here. 697 00:45:21,730 --> 00:45:25,110 I hear there's some good clubs in Dallas, too. Yeah? Or you might run into 698 00:45:25,110 --> 00:45:26,110 good people. 699 00:45:26,790 --> 00:45:27,790 Hey! 700 00:45:31,750 --> 00:45:35,290 Would you like to go on a date? I would love to go on a date with you guys. 701 00:45:35,810 --> 00:45:42,450 I think the biggest misconception about swingers is that it's all about sex. It 702 00:45:42,450 --> 00:45:44,750 is about sex, but it's about the connection. 703 00:45:45,070 --> 00:45:46,250 It's about friendship. 704 00:45:46,790 --> 00:45:52,070 It's about being open and true to yourself and experiencing what makes you 705 00:45:52,070 --> 00:45:53,330 good. Group hug. 706 00:45:53,550 --> 00:45:54,550 Group hug. 707 00:45:54,730 --> 00:45:56,130 Group hug. That'd be awesome. 708 00:46:05,350 --> 00:46:06,510 Hi, guys. Hi. 709 00:46:06,830 --> 00:46:09,770 Alan Sparkle, it's been such a pleasure to have you here in the Swing House, and 710 00:46:09,770 --> 00:46:13,870 I'm glad you had a nice time last night. I have here the contract that you 711 00:46:13,870 --> 00:46:17,850 signed upon arrival, and now I need to know what I should do with it. Was this 712 00:46:17,850 --> 00:46:21,750 just a fling, or do you think you want to swing again? 713 00:46:22,690 --> 00:46:23,690 We'll swing again. 714 00:46:24,130 --> 00:46:27,170 Okay, then. Well, I'll leave this with you as a reminder of where it all 715 00:46:27,170 --> 00:46:30,530 started. Thank you. Wish you guys all the best. Take care. 716 00:46:31,530 --> 00:46:34,890 I know our relationship is much stronger after this experience. 717 00:46:35,250 --> 00:46:39,890 We're just feeling really satisfied because we tested ourselves, we tested 718 00:46:39,890 --> 00:46:42,270 relationship, and we had a great time doing it. 719 00:46:43,310 --> 00:46:44,310 Any regrets? 720 00:46:44,770 --> 00:46:46,430 No, I don't have any regrets. 721 00:46:46,770 --> 00:46:50,150 No? No, I think... Just wish it lasted longer. I wish it lasted longer. 722 00:46:50,550 --> 00:46:51,550 Great experience. 723 00:46:51,770 --> 00:46:52,930 Great experience all around. 724 00:46:53,210 --> 00:46:54,410 I'm sad to leave. 725 00:46:54,810 --> 00:46:56,690 Yeah. But I'm glad we did.